Sometimes, someone trusts you enough to express their feelings, and then you judge them as if they were a demon.
She was once playful, cute, lovely, carefree, and believed that love was enough to have a happy life together, forever.
Then...
“She is always talking about money.”
“She is always criticizing.”
“She disrespected me.”
“She is so strange.”
“She is so cold with your family.”
...
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Then “she” realized that she once thought expressing her feelings to him would help him understand her, but it turned out to make their relationship worse.
Over time, she understands that there is no point in explaining herself. She can negotiate to balance the relationship, but she doesn’t need to be understood anymore.