I’m 20 now, and I first started wearing the niqab when I was 10.
Why? Because in my family, getting your period basically meant you were no longer a child. You were suddenly a “grown woman” who had to cover up.
When I was nine, I was just a kid. I could run around, play, sing, be loud, do whatever kids do. Then I turned ten, got my period, and suddenly everything changed. I was expected to be quiet, stop running around, avoid anything too physically active, and always be mindful of the fact that I was now wearing a niqab.
It’s honestly strange how overnight I went from being treated like a child to being expected to behave like a woman.
Now I take off the niqab behind my family’s back. I basically live a double life: I wear it in front of them, and take it off when I’m away from them.
Legally, I’m not required to wear the niqab, or even the abaya. The problem is what happens inside families.
I genuinely believe there should be laws that protect women from being forced into clothing they don’t choose, and that penalize anyone who tries to take away a woman’s right to make decisions about her own clothes and body whether that person is her father, husband, or brother.