Pleasure vs. Perfection
In ancient times, there lived a wealthy man who performed a significant sacrifice that required the sacrificer to give everything he had. This sacrifice was not just a ritual but a test of one’s sincerity and devotion. However, this man was not sincere. He wanted to gain fame and glory for making such a sacrifice, sacrificing possessions that had lost their value to him, such as old, barren, and injured cows.
This man had a son whose name was Nachiketas. The boy saw that his father had done wrong, that he had broken his vow, and that he had to die. In India, children learn to regard their father and mother as living gods, and in their presence, the children cannot speak or do anything without permission but must stand and keep their peace. So the boy approached his father and, not daring to ask a direct question, asked him:
“Who are you going to give me to? Sacrifice demands that you give everything.”
The father was distraught by the question and replied:
“What are you saying, son? Can a father give away his own son?”
The boy repeated the question a second and a third time, and the angry father finally said:
“I’ll give you Yama.”
And the boy went to the Lord of Death. But the god Yama was not at home, and the boy had to wait outside the door of the Lord of Death for three days. On the third day, Yama returned.
“Ah, polite man,” he said, “you have waited for me for three days without eating anything; you are a guest worthy of all respect. Welcome back! I’m very sorry I wasn’t home. But I’m going to make it up to you. Ask me for three things, one for each day of waiting.”
“My first request,” said the boy, “is that my father stops being angry with me, be kind to me, and recognize me when I return to him.”
The Hindu god of death promised he would fulfill the wish.
The next wish was a request for clarification about how to make the Vedic sacrifice properly to ensure a person could go to heaven.
Then the boy made his third wish:
“I’m completely perplexed. When a person dies, some say they exist afterward, others say they no longer exist. I want you to clarify this problem for me!”
This question confused Yama. He was ready to fulfill other requests, but here he said:
“The gods themselves, in ancient times, had difficulty answering this question. This law is not easy to understand. Ask for something else, don’t insist, and free me from the need to fulfill this request.”
But Nachiketas was a determined young man and said:
“You say, Lord of Death, that even the gods had doubts about this problem and that this subject is difficult to understand. But I can’t find another preceptor like you, and no other favor can replace this one.”
Then Yama said:
“Ask for children and grandchildren who will live a hundred years each; ask for cattle, elephants, horses, gold. Ask for an earthly kingdom and as long a life as you want. Or choose other favors that you find equal to these. I can give you the ability to fulfill all your wishes. Ask even for the most difficult things to obtain in this world. Behold, behold these heavenly girls, this music, these chariots, which mortals do not know; let them serve you, O Nachiketas, but do not ask me about the mystery of death.”
“All these things, O Lord of Death, are transitory,” said Nachiketas. “They drain the energy of the senses. Even the longest life is short. Keep your horses, dancers, and musicians. Man cannot be satisfied with riches. Do we keep our riches when we face you? No, we only live as long as you want us to. So the favor I’ve already asked is the only one I want from you.”
Yama liked the boy’s boldness and said:
“Indeed, my son, perfection is one thing, and pleasure is another. These two things, with different results, determine a person. He who chooses perfection becomes pure; he who chooses pleasure does not reach the true goal. Perfection and pleasure offer themselves to man, and only the wise man investigates them and distinguishes one from the other. He chooses perfection as superior to pleasure, but the fool chooses pleasure because of his body. You, Nachiketas, having discussed the nature of the things so coveted in this world, have rightly rejected them.”
Thus, Yama began to teach Nachiketas the mysteries of life and death.