Some people have easy kids, some people have hard kids. I didn’t understand the extent to which I was having a different experience (hard) till I went over & put my friend’s kid (easy) to bed for her one night. Cannot stress enough the seismic difference. Hard kids are HARD.
I've got two kids under two. It's not a big deal. Just have a full time career that I'm managing, yeah. Yeah two kids. Yeah I'm doing great. I still get a full night's of sleep. My wife is pushing on her career. We just manage. I'm 6'3. Still have time to play video games too