When it’s women’s choices, men understand they don’t exist in a vacuum.
Yet when it comes to their 9000th reason of the day that a woman’s “no” is inherently problematic, suspicious, or up for negotiation, they don’t wonder what sort of wider culture that might belong to.
Your body, your choice, your preference, of course. But they don't exist in isolation, and not dating a guy because he's bi is like not dating a black person because they're not white. People are entitled to judge you for that