Men are adults, thinking they can't understand is like treating them like kids. They know what they do, that's why they hate having gay friends, because they believe they will sexualize them and try to approach them sexually.
Unpopular maybe but I actually don't believe men are too stupid to understand the parameters of consent, or the female condition. They are seemingly devoid of empathy because they are allowed to be. They know when they've hurt someone. Yes, even when it's a "grey area." They know