This. And don’t come at me with the “you just hate men”.
I love men. I have amazing men in my life. I have had amazing men in my life my entire life.
The kind of men who, in my early 20s would walk me to my car after a shift bartending because they didn’t want me to walk out carrying a lot of cash alone. The kind of men who I felt safe getting drunk around because I knew they had my back. The kind of men who listened and cared and didn’t patronize or demean.
But even amazing men are failing on this issue.