Idea: find a mutual interest and treat each other to date nights. We’ve done season tickets to Broadway in our town. You could find concerts, theater, etc and make that the go to gift.

You could tell her you want a gift card to a nice restaurant so the two of you can have a lovely evening out together. Unless you have small kids, because eating out and hiring a babysitter, you might need to take out a loan.

lol

Exactly.

my husband & i are getting one another “an unexpected tree removal that will cost $1500 and leave a giant gaping hole in our halfway completed backyard reno”

What’s wrong with socks and underwear?