I am a guy with decades of life experience, a wife and young kids. I have no idea what you're talking about. That seems extremely incorrect from my own understanding of how things work. This would only be true in some fantasy land where weak men somehow win and attract mates.
Also, I don't care about Andrew Tate one way or another. But what you are saying here is simply not real life.
if you're a young men and you've just been 'friendzoned' I recommend pivoting from Andrew Tate frustration to "oh wow, this woman wants me to join her social events and birthdays, as a friend, where all her other female friends are, i wonder how much more facetime and consideration I will get with her female friends vs on the apps"