they believe knowledge about transition is a nuclear neurological cognitohazard that "makes" one trans by force, like the enigma of amigara fault. demonic possession through data. they believe that if information didn't exist, nobody would want to transition in the first place
I'm convinced that transphobes have zero clue what grooming even is. How is someone saying "It's okay if you want to transition, and it's also okay if you don't want to, the choice is yours. I'm here for you either way" grooming in any way?