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I'm saying that I think incrementally easier infidelity for married men is a bigger problem than top notch bachelors, ring in pocket, getting fished into long-term parasocial relationships with porn stars
Either way OF is bad in that it creates a bridge from porn to prostitutes
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Look, you have to know absolutely nothing about Dolly Parton to take a quote like that at face value. Genuinely. She wasn't under the impression that men want Amazon warrior women either, it's a joke!
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I think the bigger problem is that families are built on a marital foundation wherein spouses age, conflicts occur, love flickers, and culturally feeding the typically male desire for sexual novelty is just as bad as feeding the typically female desire for an Eat Pray Love arc
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Look, I very much doubt that OF subs are pulling in a bunch of desirable nascent wife guys who would definitely be proposing to real women if they weren't doing paid DMs all night, but sure insofar as that's happening I think it's obviously not a good thing for anybody
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Are you suggesting it's popular as a legitimate psychological pain playlist item? It's classic karaoke lmao
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Jolene was written as an inside joke between a husband and wife who remained married for 58 years, until his death at 82
If that seems irrelevant here, I'd reflect
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The better argument is that male sexual attraction is demonstrably tightly bound to female youth, and women tend to become more dependent (financially entangled, responsible for children) the longer they're married
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I think it's interesting how naturally men project hypergamy anxiety onto women when "is she hotter than me?" is rarely if ever the issue women have with cheating, at least not as such
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I realize I probably seem callous, but once you've seen these social dynamics play out in enough girl circles, I'm sorry, it's just funny. I'm just not interested at all in giving any power to it
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Yeah, well, that's exactly why I'm laughing over here 😂 Nobody can actually tell what was particularly mean about it, but clearly it's super offensive since a woman is losing her mind over it
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Yeah, no, she's definitely upset about it, I just don't know what she's modeling about the world here. Does she think Lyft drivers who say these things to her while hoping for 5 stars are insulting her?
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Welp, great, I copped to that! Obviously I don't think it's a particularly mean thing to say, and tbh I think this entire subthread is actually pretty funny which is why I'm probably gonna be here all night
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I explained the implication, and indeed she responded saying that lots of other people have innocuously mentioned that she has an academic/"librarian" look
I don't know why you need me to say this woman is ugly dude
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If your balls have dropped there's no excuse for failing to understand the precariousness of mothers wrt increasingly libertine mores
Most social problems you can solve by incarcerating or hanging people, but when people build families that depend on them that's not an option
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The great irony here is that saying it was an insult would be claiming she's ugly, which I've not done and won't do because I don't think that's the case
I think it's kinda sad that you apparently think so
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I don't know who you are, we're not friends, and yes, like the many other people who have apparently said this to you I think you have a look that matches with comments like "that's reductive"
I'm sorry if I ruined your night, I have literally zero investment in this
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I guess this is an insult if you think your own social milieu is unusually hideous, but all I can figure is that this is actually just extreme neuroticism at work? I dunno
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