everything with this cornell case is reminding me something that happened at a party a few years ago. i was at a party at the house of some of my guy friends, they had invited a man that they didnt know too well. the man was interested in one of their woman friends, but as the-
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night went on, she got so drunk to the point she couldnt walk or even speak coherent WORDS let alone sentences. i took her upstairs and had to help her onto the toilet just to pee. i put her to bed in one of the friends bedrooms and went back downstairs to the party. some time-
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had passed and i realized that one guy wasnt anywhere to be seen. i asked the guy friends who lived there, who knew i put the incoherent girl to bed upstairs, where the guy had gone. they CONFIDENTLY told me that he went upstairs. they allowed this man that they barely knew-
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to go upstairs where the only person who was there, was a girl, their supposed friend, who was so drunk she couldnt even speak or piss on her own. i ran up there and banged on the door to hear that man say "just 5 more minutes". the guys begged me to just leave it alone. that it-
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was fine. they had zero interest in protecting their "friend" from being RAPED. 5 guys and not one wanted to protect this girl. i stormed in the room to find the girl laying completely naked and the man on top of her completely clothed. she was so confused and still completely-
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incoherent. she couldnt even recognize who *i* was, someone shes known for a while at that point, let alone this man she just met that night. i was the only one to enter that room. i was the only one to stand up to that man. all of our male "friends" stood at the end of the hall-
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did, he started trying to break one of the guy "friends" car. then and only then did any of those men intervene. when their *car* was being damaged. THAT was when he intervened. then, the next day, these same men took that girl to lunch and proceeded to tell her that she owed-
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everyone an apology for "putting us in that situation". she remembered NOTHING from the night before, had ZERO recollection of this man trying to rape her and these men convinced her that she was to blame for all that went down. MEN NEED TO HOLD OTHER MEN ACCOUNTABLE. YOU ARE-
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SUPPOSED TO BE "PROTECTORS" YET YOU COWARD AT THE FACE OF OTHER MEN WHEN THEY ABUSE WOMEN RIGHT IN FRONT OF YOU. YOU DO NOTHING TO FIGHT FOR THE SAFETY OF WOMEN AND WONDER WHY THE HATRED OF THESE RAPISTS ALSO REFLECT ONTO YOU. IF YOU ARE A GOOD MAN. IF YOU ARE A HUMAN BEING AT-
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ALL. YOU WOULD FIGHT BACK AGAINST THESE MEN RAPING AND ABUSING WOMEN. YOUD BE CALLING FOR THEM TO FACE CONSEQUENCES FOR THEIR ACTIONS. BUT YOURE NOT DOING THIS. YOU EITHER HOLD YOUR SILENCE AND PASSIVELY ALLOW WOMEN TO BE HARMED, OR YOU BLAME THE WOMEN FOR THEIR OWN ABUSE. OR-
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WORSE: BOTH. BEING A GOOD MAN IS NOT JUST "NOT RAPING OR ABUSING" WOMEN. BEING A GOOD MAN IS STANDING UP FOR WOMEN AGAINST YOUR PEERS WHO CONSISTENTLY DEHUMANIZE AND BRUTALIZE THEM. BEING A GOOD MAN IS NOT PASSIVE, BEING A GOOD MAN TAKES ACTION. HAD I NOT BEEN THERE, THAT WOMAN-
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