I think there's a big overcorrection for the fact that a substantial amount of people on here don't seem to believe ADHD exists at all. So you get "actually, I can't do X or Y" from "your disorder does not exist"
The way people talk about ADHD on here is a psyop to trick you into not doing things and being a loser. You can read books, you can show up on time, you can work a job, you can do the dishes. You can do anything