Feminist: I carry women’s rights on my head. Safeguarding Professional. Fashion Designer. Music Lover. Fiction Reader. Aspiring Novelist.
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I finally found the temerity to Goan post one of my short stories on Medium.😌
This one is for all of us who have lost loved ones; who though gone, live on in our memories of them and the love we shared. Pls read and comment.
Encourage a budding writer🤲🏻
medium.com/@zgctdmfxw/it-was…
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When survival consumes most of your energy, there is simply no freedom to pursue a meaningful life.
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freedom of choice cannot be used to shield a patriarchal ideology from criticism, it's really not complicated
"a woman has the right to choose what she wears" until she chooses the hijab. then suddenly everyone has an opinion. y'all don't believe in freedom of choice, you believe in choices you personally approve of. you don't want women to be free, you want them to make choices
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Women have jobs and careers of their own today. Only about 2 in 10 mothers are traditional stay at home moms. Meanwhile, 45% of mothers were sole or primary breadwinners by 2023, up from roughly 11% in 1960. The family dynamic has changed dramatically.
The argument that men only need to provide financially is losing steam. Today, men have to bring more to a marriage than a paycheck. Women need emotional connection, affection, partnership and intimacy, too. You cannot outsource the emotional labor of a marriage and expect your wife to remain in love with you and desire you.
Our parents’ generation learned the hard way that financial stability alone doesn’t make a marriage work. The rise in divorce during the 1970s and 1980s reflected a broader shift in expectations, independence and women’s options. Marriage requires more than a provider. It requires a partner and lover.
If sex isn’t an obligation in marriage, then husbands have no obligation to financially provide for their wives.
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Nigeria deserves leaders who care about the lives of its people.
Share this message with friends and family!
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I really, really need a job. Help me.
I can handle operations beyond the digital magazine publishing.
If you run a business and need a financial operations person, i.e., someone to arrange and document how money goes in and out of your business, hire me for that toooo 🙏
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Meanwhile female surgeons have better patients outcomes than male ones. Your chances of surviving with a female surgeon is higher than with a male.
There’s a whole study about this….but Israel that misogyny will soon take his life thinks his opinion is universal reality. Ode
In the medical field, you’ll hardly see women carry out major operations. It’s always the men, while the women are just there to assist. You can’t disprove the fact that a woman is just a helpmate to a man.
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You people complain about everything, Jesus!
The ones speaking English, they said they don’t sound Nigerian. The ones speaking pidgin are not Mama G enough because of it.
Kilode?
Too much Pidgin English. Old Nollywood stars like Mama G, Sam Loco, Nkem Owoh, Mr. Ibu, Aki and Pawpaw gave us pure comedy in proper English. Why does Nollywood today rely so heavily on Pidgin English for comedy?
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If you own or head a digital publication like a literary magazine, culture magazine, and the likes, I have over 4 years of experience managing publication workflows and operations, most especially via WordPress.
Please hire me. I can send my CV in a blink.
Please rtw too 🙏
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I know this is rage bait but please goan remove that feminist you wrote in caps in your bio.
If you cannot be bothered to learn about women’s bodies and health, you are not a feminist.
That’s the lowest bar there is fgs.
Also, maybe yall should stop
Marrying men with small dicks
“The vagina goes back to its normal size after childbirth”
This is one of the biggest lies sold to women.
Your vagina never returns to its original size, so I urge women to opt for CS….
Especially if you still want to enjoy your sexual life.
Community note
Most sources indicate that after vaginal childbirth the vagina returns close to its previous size over time for the majority of women. Long term studies have found similar rates of sexual satisfaction regardless of delivery method.
medicalnewstoday.com/articles/vagin… contemporaryobgyn.net/view/study-fin… pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC68
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Olodo Nigerian man like the olodo Nigerian woman whose post he is responding to says to forget what
Medical practitioners say and trust his own “evidence”
This person is not a woman or a doctor, will never be pregnant or experience childbirth but he thinks he’s an authority. Ment
I don't support C-sections, but the vagina never goes back to its original size. Forget what medical practitioners say—the evidence is there.
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Your daddy is a tad bit slow, unam ikot.
Lack of emotional depth as per somebody died or what?
Stiff dialogue cos you didn’t see that Uche was trying to avoid confronting the matter since it was an office?
Now it’s audio effects?
Ikorodu movie critic….better get away from here.
It seems like you're a tad bit slow. I was referring to the lack of emotional depth, stiff dialogue, and audio effects. I don't know where you see any comparison to any other actors from my tweet.
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That performance was good.
There are various things/performances to criticize new Nollywood with, this one isn’t one of them.
Suddenly, 2000s Nollywood is the gold standard and everybody has appointed themselves critic because criticizing 2020s actors is trending.
E don do abeg
No offense, but I hate when people make excuses for mediocre performance by saying things like this. They are supposed to be seasoned actors. It sounds like the begining dialogue of a porno. We will never do better untill we start telling ourselves the truth, in order to grow
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Quoting again to say you people are not serious.
Expecting 29yo Uche to talk/act like 47yo Genevieve as if y’all talk like your mothers.
There’s a 20+ yrs gap btw 2000s Nollywood and this generation but we think dialogue style should stay the same.
Everybody na movie critic.😒
Look at the way they are reciting the script word for word and they are supposed to be the best actresses in current Nollywood 😂😂😂😂
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Yes, that’s as upperclass as it gets for most of us in Nigeria.
But then you focused on the “upperclass” because you have no defense for the critique I presented.
What should they have done differently from what they did there, Mr Mouth is Good?
Do you know what “upper class” means? Bambam’s character was born and raised in Nigeria, married a wealthy man, and moved abroad due to the power imbalance in her marriage. Uche’s character grew up poor and worked her way up to become a top divorce lawyer.
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Mouth is Good Motors until dem give you script.
Seen this movie and they were upperclass folks. Bambam’s character lived abroad for years and was very rich. Uche worked for a big law firm and this happened in her office…were they supposed to start shouting or speak pidgin?🙄
Look at the way they are reciting the script word for word and they are supposed to be the best actresses in current Nollywood 😂😂😂😂
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This is such a 10/10 translation 👌
Lemme send it to Eka Dorcas make she distribute to all her fellow WhatsApp mommies.
Welldone @publikphigor 👏
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