That’s a really insightful point you made here
@MekondjoKondja maybe men don’t always need to be around 24/7 immediately after a woman gives birth, but the best support is knowing when to step back and being there when you’re actually needed.
There's no need for any man to be near a women who just gave birth. By nature the female species isolates to ensure the safety of the vulnerable and delicate newborn. Traditionally, women have always stayed indoors until the baby opens its eyes, and continue to be in the company of older women (primarily their mothers or aunties). When the baby is little, mothers are overly sensitive (rightfully so for the safety of the baby), their emotions are all over the place and may exaggerate things easily. Unfortunately that's for themselves to overcome as part of nature. Doesnt require men like women think. They should be angry at God.
If a man is there he'll have to be a sponge for all the emotions, frustrations etc of the woman, which destroys attraction and reduces interst because men naturally don't have such coping mechanisms. They may store but just to explode later. Men remain clumsy and aggressive by conduct to be around newborns. We must stop imitating whites as they're by far the humans who deviated the furtherst from nature. Women should remain getting their money. In fact, it should be increased to 6 months with full pay.