Women will never understand the simple joy men get from just existing. A man can arrive in a new city, walk around for hours, explore random streets, observe people, and be completely fucking content. Then a woman joins. Now there needs to be an agenda. Cafe. Restaurant. Shopping. Tourist spot. Photos. Next location. Something always has to be happening. Meanwhile, a man can grab a good drink, sit in the town square for three hours, watch the world move around him, and think: "Yeah. This is f*cking nice." No itinerary. No entertainment. No destination. Just existing without needing existence to entertain you. Being a man is peaceful.
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My handsome, strapping 30 year old son who isn't dating and I had this same discussion yesterday. He said, The world is chaos but my life is peaceful. I said, Treasure it. I said, The moment a woman walks into your life you will discover how many things you need to change to make her happy ... and you will likely never know peace again. He said, Dad, I get that. Like other men his age my son has done the math. The risks of partnering with a woman far outstrip the benefits. Life for a Christ-centered single man can be beautiful and simply lived.

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Replying to @JMDAlfano @offendnoone
Make sure he's aware of the Impossible Question so he can continue enjoying life's beauty. It's probably safe to casually introduce around the 2nd or 3rd date.
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Women are not honest.
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Replying to @JMDAlfano @offendnoone
"Be fruitful and increase in number " Genesis 1:28 We in the west have forgotten this,others in the world have not
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The West is no place for wishful thinking regarding marital stability. God expects both partners to honour the marriage covenant. The data is against us.
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Neoasceticism
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As a 32 year old man who has had plenty of relationships I can honestly say women are not worth it to me anymore
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Replying to @JMDAlfano @offendnoone
Literally ending your bloodline lmao. Maybe teach him how to be a man worth his weight in salt and how to lead and conquer women, not some coward ass recluse.
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No man owes a woman his best only to risk it all hoping she doesn't change her mind at some point and send him packing to the curb. My son and many of his generation have figured out the cold, purely transactive calculus of modern feminism and don't want any part of it.
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Replying to @JMDAlfano @offendnoone
Nice way to pass on your bitterness to your son and lie about all the ways a good woman can make your life better.
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A good woman is a prize. But men know they are easily beguiled by a woman's charms and social performance and are easy prey to manipulation. I don't think you really understand what's going on here.
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Men today know that the odds of finding and holding onto any woman, regardless of how well she presents, is not in his favor. She may flirt with the idea of marriage and convention, but her life and secrets and all your future betrayals are buried inside her phone. Yeah. No.
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Replying to @JMDAlfano @offendnoone
He’s gay?
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Meanwhile Muslims are cranking out babies by the dozens.
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In the West: Muslims ➡️ breeding ➡️ increased population ➡️ voters ➡️ elections ➡️ the end of democracy and Christian heritage.
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Replying to @JMDAlfano @offendnoone
His. CHrist like life won't last long, the Christian cultists cunt develop the deep faith that takes them across the ocean of suffering.
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