First poker, then @campstompground and @dailyfantasysr. These days - unschooling parent, soccer coach, and a little poker.

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High achievers just put max effort into things by default. Tomlin’s not scrolling his phone and watching Judge Judy, so this is how he unwinds.
Former NFL coach Mike Tomlin shows off his massively detailed Minecraft city that he's been building for the last 12 years
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Of course that's your contention. You're a first-year travel soccer dad. You watched the WC this year and heard a podcast about Tom Farrey's Norway thing, so naturally that's what you believe: no scores until thirteen, kill the tryouts, joy is the curriculum.
Norway wins the most medals at the Winter Olympics, with a population of just 5.6 million. People say it’s because Norway is a winter wonderland, but they’re also elite at triathlon, beach volleyball, cycling, and as the world is now seeing, soccer. A big part of their success is how they treat youth sports—and it’s the opposite of what we do in the US and Canada. Here’s what we can learn from Norway: 1. Scorekeeping: In the US: Youth sports tend to be hyper competitive even at early ages. Leagues almost always keep score. In Norway: Scorekeeping isn’t even allowed until age 13. Removing winners and losers keeps the focus on the process not outcomes. It keeps kids engaged longer because it minimizes pressure (and tears) and maximizes fun, learning, and growth. The goal isn’t to win a third grade championship. It’s to love sport and keep playing. 2. Trophies: In the US: If you give everyone a trophy, you’re creating snowflakes who will never gain a competitive edge. In Norway: Whenever trophies are awarded, they are handed out to everyone. If getting a trophy makes young kids feel good, we should give them trophies. Maybe they’ll come back and play again next year!! As for the creation of snowflakes with no competitive edge—Norway’s athletes are tough as nails and all they do is win. 3. Prioritizing Fun: In the US: Far too often, the goal is to win. In Norway: The national philosophy is “joy of sport.” Youth sports in the US are driven by adults, ego, and money. Youth sports in Norway are driven by fun. Only half of kids in the US participate in sports. The number one reason they drop out: because they aren’t having fun anymore. In Norway, 93% of kids participate in youth sports. Fun is the foremost goal. 4. Playing Multiple Sports: In the US: There’s pressure to specialize early and play your best sport year round. In Norway: Try as many sports as you can before specializing as late as college. Norway encourages kids to try all types of sport. This reduces injury and burnout and increases all-around athleticism. It also helps promotes match quality, or finding the sport you are best suited for as your body develops, which is impossible if you commit to a single sport too early. 5. Affordability In the US: There is increasingly a pay-to-play model with high fees for leagues, equipment, and travel. This excludes many kids from playing. In Norway: It’s a national priority to keep youth sports affordable and therefore accessible for all. Kids aren’t priced out, which creates opportunities for everyone to participate (and develop into athletes), regardless of their parents’ income level. Norway’s sporting success isn’t just speculation or a nice story. A large body of research supports their approach: • Studies show athletes who specialize later in life have a significantly higher chance of becoming elite. • Soccer players whose motivation is primarily internal (versus external) have more than a 3x better chance of making it to an elite level. • The number one predictor of whether or not kids stay in sport is are they having fun. • Parents connect winning to having fun whereas kids say having fun is about being with their friends and learning. We could learn a lot from Norway: In the US, 70% of kids drop out of youth sports by age 13. This not only diminishes an elite-athlete pipeline, but it also destroys an opportunity for healthy habits and all the character lessons kids can learn from sport. In Norway, lifelong participation in sport is the norm. The goal isn’t to have the best 9U team. It’s to develop the best athletes. Those are two very different things. And Norway has the medals to prove it.
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You're not going to have an original thought about any of this. You're going to spend eight years and forty grand cycling through other people's takes when the whole answer was available for free: put a ball in the backyard and see if your kid falls in love with it.
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Maybe then you'll meet a guy in a Man City hat and before you know it you'll be telling everyone they need to go watch Take the Ball, Pass the Ball, and pretty soon you've got ten-year-olds who just came over from rec trying to build out of the back on goalie possessions.
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And pay-to-play - don't even start. You heard Eric Wynalda call it the thing killing American soccer, and you'll repeat it like a man who is not, at this very moment, writing a $3,700 check to a club so his u12 can lose 6-1 to a team from CT in a stay to play tourney.
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But then at some point someone will tell you that, actually, Lamine Yamal DIDN'T learn to dribble by going against his dogs... that he learned at a professional academy, just like basically every player whose name anyone recognizes.
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The club only wants early developers & rich kids. They would have missed out on Ronaldinho and Vini Jr.! You're in the street soccer phase now. You heard all summer about how American kids are over-professionalized from Megan Rapinoe or whatever.
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That's going to last until sometime next spring, when you discover the phrase 'relative age effect,' because you read the first chapter of Outliers in an airport, and now every roster decision is a conspiracy against your July birthday kid...
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Until next month, when you get to Tom Byer, and suddenly it's 'football starts at home,' and you're rolling a size-one ball across your kitchen floor at a toddler and telling everyone at the U9 game that the Japanese figured this out twenty years ago.
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James Davis retweeted
re: private equity × youth sports PE is a good thing. It's made business more competitive and efficient, enriching the economy and Americans. That said, profit-maximization isn't the right objective in every sector. Think health care delivery. Higher-ed. And youth sports. Youth sports clubs, tournament organizers, and local venues used to be mission driven. Most were founded and run by enterprising parents who wanted what was best for their kids, the club, and the broader ecosystem. Sustainability via breakeven or a slight profit was the goal. Over time, the successful of these stumbled into market power and brand value. They started to have pricing power. They didn't need to raise prices for sustainability and many didn't, even though they could. Private equity saw an opportunity to acquire assets that were still largely being run for community benefit. As a result, the clubs, tournaments, and venues switched from being mission-driven to profit-maximizing. The transfer of ownership from a parent to a fund changes the optimization function. Maximizing profits meant squeezing more money out of fewer participants, often counter to the original goals of the founder. Not everything in American life should be optimized around profits. The downside is that fewer kids participate, especially those from lower-income or single-parent families. For those who remain, the escalating cost and time commitment creates a worse experience for many. But once your kid is on the competitive treadmill, it’s hard to get off. Private equity understands that dynamic. It’s why they invested.
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The point is that you may actually be offered many +EV bets in your lifetime, and if you are in the habit of refusing +EV bets well within your bankroll you will be worse off. Everyone I know who is crushing it has SOME appetite for risk.
Replying to @0xNiko1
WTF? It’s one flip. “Hey, I just lost 100 bucks!” “Yes, but you won $12.50 across all flips.” “Oh. Can I have more flips? “Lol no.”
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This is truly a crazy feature that I wish I had when starting basically every project I've tried.
You'll get addicted if you try this just once: /gstack run office hours on my codebase (h/t @garrytan)
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Prescient insight from a member of Trump’s own cabinet!
What did removing Saddam, Gaddafi, Assad get us? Chaos, civil war, genocide. The rule for regime change operations in the Middle East is that they don’t flip a country from bad-to-good. They flip a country from bad-to-worse.
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If you believe in a world where AI fundamentally changes things for the better, and you're out here FUDding Claude, I don't know what to tell you. Anthropic has put forth the most transformative AI technology by a mile, and this anti-woke/dei nonsense totally misses the point.
Replying to @AnthropicAI
Your AI hates Whites & Asians, especially Chinese, heterosexuals and men. This is misanthropic and evil. Fix it. Frankly, I don’t think there is anything you can do to escape the inevitable irony of Anthropic ending up being Misanthropic. You were doomed to this fate when you chose your name. The Name of the Wind.
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Same guy is saying how he “took profits” yesterday. Friendly reminder to never listen to these guys, who make money best by leveraging their reputation as “traders” rather than trading itself.
Pretty sure BTC is going to just lock out trend up only into price discovery over the next month and not give anyone entries tbh.
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Dogmatism comes for almost everyone eventually. Ramit knows why all TVs lose their value over 13 years and most American homes gain value over the same time frame… but for some reason is super dug in on the rent vs buy thing.
If you bought a TV in 2012 for $500, of course you'd expect to sell it for less today It would be ridiculous to think someone would pay MORE 13 years later Now consider: Why do Americans expect to profit from selling their old houses? The answer is surprisingly complex
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Imagine you could get paid for setting and resetting targets like this with absolutely no accountability.
S&P 500 YEAR-END TARGET RAISED TO 6,300 FROM 5,600 AT BOFA
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This one rattles me a bit.
Prompt Theory (Made with Veo 3) What if AI-generated characters refused to believe they were AI-generated?
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Just what America needs - one of your neighbors with the batshit lawn signs as president.
Good Morning from The White House!
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Pretty much the exact type of response you can expect to anything you post online.
If you won't allow klansmen to burn crosses on Harvard campus, you should now allow antisemites to harass Jewish students. If you won't allow white supremacy classes, you should not allow womens studies (or holocaust studies, or african american studies). Replace advocacy with science.
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