These people are so utterly delusional. Melodramatic nonsense, as if trans people existing harms their very humanity. Racists and sexists (of which most anti-transgender activists are) feel the same. The existence of people you hate doesnt harm your humanity. You harm it yourself
They don't see us as human. They see us as an experience they can buy their way into. It's like prostitution, but what's being sold isn't women's bodies, it's our humanity.