I have 2 sister
14 cousin sisters , all older than me
No one told me about Vibe, compatibility, emotional maturity, character, communication.
Apparently , girl can decide all this and judge your in just 2 hr talk ? But will take 4hr buy new pair of shoes ..
In fact , most of men (middle class) are or made to focus their life around job security , financial stability , family safety, culture , tradition .
Men think earning ₹3L/month is enough to get them a girl for marriage.
But she literally said “compatibility” a word people conveniently ignore.
Trust me, girls like me aren’t looking for just a salary package. We look for someone who understands us, matches our wavelength, communicates well, and is emotionally available.
Money matters. But compatibility decides whether you actually want to stay.