I will always respect someone who says "I don't know how to handle this but I want to understand". You don't need all the answers to be a good partner. You just need the willingness to learn.
Happy Friday My Loves! Reminder: Your body deserves kindness too. Feed it, rest it, appreciate it, and thank it for carrying you through every single day! Have an awesome day Sunflowers! Loooooove Yoooooou! ππππ
The right person won't make you feel guilty for missing them. They won't act like your desire for closeness is a weakness. They'll miss you just as much and be happy that you care.
The right person won't make you question whether you're annoying them by existing. You'll feel wanted in the little moments, not just when they're in the mood for you.
If your partner tells you something hurts them your first instinct shouldn't be to explain why they're wrong. Sometimes loving someone means caring about their experience even when you would've experienced the situation differently.
Being in love with someone should make you want to know everything about them. Their fav song, random thoughts, childhood stories, little habits, weird opinions and all the things they don't usually tell people.
Having someone who notices the little changes means everything. Not bc they need to monitor you, but bc after loving you for long enough they'll know when something is off.
The kind of love where we genuinely enjoy each other, not just "we're in a relationship" but actually wanting to tell each other everything, spend time together, make each other laugh and be around each other for no reason >>>
Don't settle for somebody who only knows how to love you when you're easy to love. Real commitment shows up when you're stressed, emotional, insecure, frustrated or difficult to understand.
Someone who is serious about you will eventually start thinking in terms of "us". Not because they lost their individuality, but because your presence genuinely became part of how they see their future.
Being chosen is nice but being considered is deeper. Anyone can say they want you, not everyone thinks about you when making decisions that could effect you.