yeah it's almost like the cool kids use "weird" "creepy" etc to enforce social boundaries against neurodivergent socially awkward guys who they don't wanna be around with the added benefit of also making them the sin-eaters for normiedom's gender violence
In light of Cornell situation, I don’t think women realize how much self-policing occurs in male groups for “creepy” behaviors amongst peers. During undergrad, if freshman did anything “weird” towards a girl, they’d get unanimously blackballed from all fraternities on campus