If you don't have anyone to talk about your interests and passions with, start writing on the internet and you'll find them.

Exactly! People are mistaking this post as men-hating post, but that's not my motive to post it. Men or women, anyone in need should be offered a seat.

Its really great but this platform is incredibly addictive and i am finding myself getting deeper and deeper into this trap

free advice: don’t take shots at individuals unless they’re true public figures (like a president). even then critiquing ppl is dumb because we are all human & we all make mistakes. if you need to, aim your discourse at ideas, systems, or cultural defaults instead. discussing these is sharper, safer, & harder to refute. & likely more interesting. it shifts discourse from gossip to philosophy. basically you should critique the software layer of humanity, not the hardware. this is the line i hold on my account.

the older you get the more you realize how dangerous it is to know this much about the lives of strangers. i often can’t believe how many ppl are just constantly plugged into para social drama where they spend their time effectively absorbing relationships, tragedies, opinions, fights, successes, illnesses, & anxieties of thousands of ppl that they will never meet like influencers. not only that but they’re taking advice from & formulating opinions through these ppl. this is nuts. i don’t follow any influencers & very few ppl in my life that are close to me know any sort of intimate details. & i resist knowing things about ppl i don’t know. i suspect that’s the way it should be.

Men are single because women think having a vagina is enough. No self-work. No effort to understand men. And that's why they're mad. If men were marrying just for sex, every prostitute would be a wife by now. A man can get sex with no wedding, no bills, no responsibility of feeding and housing a woman. No serious man marries for sex. He marries for peace. For loyalty. For children. For a home. For a woman he can actually build a life with. That's why the men who STILL want marriage in this generation aren't looking for a body. Bodies are cheap. They're looking for character. And most of you don't have it.

You gotta be shitting me???!!!!

There are cathedrals everywhere for those with the eyes to see yet we keep going to the ones where everyone agrees it exists and not create our own. The point is meaning is taking on a challenge/responsibility which gives meaning to the suffering otherwise its meaningless which in on itself is the cause of suffering and for most it will be the suffering of raising the children at the cost of their own happiness.

Alpha by definition is the leader of the pack and is supposed to be rare, if everyone became alpha they would fight and kill each other until again only few survived who can split the available resources and setup their own domains ig its about time women should publicly acknowledge that they are ok sharing a man.

let me seriously contribute to the hot tech girl discourse, as a middle aged woman in tech: appearance and presentation is one of the small disproportionate points of leverage young women have in an industry that’s extremely hostile to them otherwise. and even then: it’s not always a good trade. I’ve told this story many times, but the reason I didn’t get my CS degree many, many moons ago (including a scholarship to CMU!) is I walked into room after room where no one looked like me. Not only were there no women, but there wasn’t anyone who seemingly cared at all about style or charm. The room might as well said: no hot girls allowed. 20 years in tech and startups and hot girl commentary has been inescapable. Watching men wonder out loud if the female SWE interviewing is hot. The uniform hotness of enterprise sales reps. The Botox, boob jobs, eyelash extensions, and impressively toned arms on 50+ yo female executives. The cutie pie devx yt streamers. The “new to SF” posters. But before you envy the hot girl (or complain about her rising leverage) also trust this: looks are — on the whole — a miserable downside to being a woman in tech. She will be told she’s only in the room because she’s hot. She will be dismissed as vapid, or preying on men, or needy for attention. She’ll be asked to go on stage or in a booth or on a video in a way that doesn’t make her feel great. She’ll look good for her age and people will presume she’s inexperienced. She will have not-hot days and be told she looks tired. She will be newly pregnant or postpartum and be called fat. She will grow old and wonder if the Botox and boob job and eyelash extensions will give her another decade in the career that she loves. She will tune her “touch up my appearance” settings like her job depends on it. She will wonder when she needs to disappear. So be kind—to these women, and yourself. These girls are hot, but they’re also smart, hard working, and hyper aware this tool probably has a shelf life. It’s probably not as fun as it seems. They have feelings, too (even if they’re tough as nails and don’t show it.) And to the sisterhood of hot tech girls: I salute you! 💅

Sometimes, you become intriguing to women on this site, and they like a lot of your posts in succession, hoping to signal to you that they have correctly intuited your nature, delighting in your worldview, knowing that you can take care of them help them escape from the tawdry, bitter world they are otherwise unfairly left in to fend for themselves. But they should just DM! 😉