Heartbroken to lose this incredible feminist icon, mentor, champion, organizing legend, writer, leader from this world.
I met Gloria at Hedgebrook women writers’ retreat back in 2000. I was starstruck, shy around her. But she was sitting around the kitchen table with a group of us women writers and immediately put us at ease. When she heard about my book and my work as an immigrant rights activist, she immediately jumped into a deep conversation with me, listening closely to what I was describing of our broken immigration system and immediately connecting the issues of sexism, migration, and economic stability all together. I remember her looking directly at me and saying, we need your voice out there in the world. A few months later, I got a call from the Women’s Media Center saying that Gloria had recommended me for a brand new communications leadership training designed to lift women’s voices. That also led to decades of work together.
All of this was so….GLORIA. She was always about the movement. She lifted up other women. Even when she had a party right before she got the Presidential Medal of Honor from President Obama, she had all of us go around the room and describe what we were working on so others could know. It didn’t matter if you were Oprah or an activist leader like I was at the time, everyone did it the same because Gloria asked.
She was unstinting and generous with her time, her advice, her listening, her lifting of voices that were most marginalized. She was also hilarious, sometimes texting at 3 AM in the morning with her latest organizing plan (let’s put buttons in every bathroom on xyzzy theme!). She was bold, visionary, and brilliant in finding the words to describe what women across the world felt.
I feel so incredibly fortunate to have read her writings, listened to her strong and inspirational voice through the decades, and to have absorbed just a little of her incredible wisdom.
To you, Gloria, for your life that changed the world….and changed so many of us. Rest in power.