I do not think "They must praise us after we constantly insult them/we trade insults - or they prove our insults CORRECT!!!" is something any normal citizen would take seriously after 10th grade.
Imagine, for example, how statistically very very fringe white racialists would respond to being asked to do this same thing, by far more numerous center-leftists of the
@HistoryBoomer type.
Most people are......probably just going to vote for the people that don't hate them. Per ANY previously used metric like crime rate, test scores, IQ scores, violent crime rate, homicide rate, illegitimacy rate, divorce rate, college attendance rate, college graduation rate HERE, etc. South and East Asian Americans do very well. So do Jews.
I will not pretend to hate them. Nor should you.
I say this with genuine sympathy for the excesses Indian Americans face today:
Indian Americans have to find a way to respond that is still affirmative to right-wing America, or they prove their critics right