My Fiance has helped me raise my boys for the last 14 years. If they ever did something like this to him, I sure in hell would not be taking their side. Sounds to be like she still has feelings for her criminal ex. She sure seems to show him more respect than the MAN that stepped up and took care of her daughter.
My husband raised my daughter since she was 7. She's 28 now and always called him "dad." Then her real father got out of prison and came back into her life. Suddenly my husband got jealous. She stopped calling him dad, started using his first name, and he completely switched up. He ignores her now, pulled out of co-signing her car, and said her "real dad" should handle it. Imagine raising a child for 20+ years just to throw her away over pride. Is love really that conditional? Now I'm stuck playing mediator in a family being torn apart by ego. Am I wrong for being disgusted by his behavior?