If sex is a big deal to you, stay OFF marriage.
For men, sex is not just sex, it's FOOD.
We don't just run to it when we're horny. We run to it when we're sad, depressed, had a bad day, failed an exam, lost a contract.
Sex is how a man resets.
For women it's emotional, for men it's existential. Completely different operating systems.
So if as a woman you don't see your body as belonging to your husband, as his peace, his fuel, his refuge - DO NOT get married.
Because he will need you ANYTIME, not just SOMETIME.
Sexual responsibility in marriage doesnโt make a wifeโs body her husbandโs property.
It means she canโt write off their erotic life and then insist sheโs neglected nothing that matters.