Ok, not sure I completely understood but here is a comparison. I now increased the sample size from models and hindcasts, so the data is a bit more robust.
“n = 42” means 42 observed SSWs, and the panel shows the month right after each one. Most SSWs happen in January–February, so those 42 following months were:
2 Decembers
6 Januaries
19 Februaries
15 Marches
The top-left panel is therefore “the month after a typical SSW”, which is mostly February or March. Only 2 of the 42 are actually Decembers. The column is lined up with December only for the two model rows, because there the collapse is in early November and the next month is December.
The two rows answer different questions:
Lower two model rows: early-November collapse → what happens in December.
ERA5 row: any SSW → what happens in the month after it, usually late winter.
First month after SSW, eastern US, odds of colder / near / warmer:
ERA5 all SSWs: 42 / 41 / 16
CMIP6 early collapse: 41 / 32 / 27
SEAS5 early collapse: 45 / 28 / 27
So an early collapse tilts the first month about as much as a typical SSW does, with the same pattern: colder southern & eastern US, warmer eastern Canada / Hudson Bay.
Second month after, eastern US colder / near / warmer:
ERA5 all SSWs: 28 / 33 / 39 (27 cases)
CMIP6 early collapse: 37 / 31 / 31
SEAS5 early collapse: 41 / 32 / 27
Here they diverge. After a typical SSW the eastern US actually tilts milder in month two, with the cold shifting West. After an early-November collapse the models keep a slight cold tilt into January, stronger in SEAS5, weaker in CMIP6.
Third month after (February for an early collapse), eastern US colder / near / warmer:
ERA5 all SSWs: too few cases (only 8 SSWs have a 3rd month out still in winter period)
CMIP6 early collapse: 29 / 33 / 38
SEAS5 early collapse: 34 / 34 / 32
By February, the cold tilt is mostly gone. SEAS5 is back to even odds with some remaining neutral/cold hints, and CMIP6 even leans slightly milder in the East.