Coming home from deployment brings its own kind of battle. Doug Livermore, who deployed eight times with Special Forces, talks about how his wife became highly skilled at running the household on her own, especially once they had kids. That left him and a lot of other SF guys facing the same question: where do you fit back into a family that's learned how to function without you for months at a time.
Then there's the abrupt shift. Overseas schedules often mean working nights or reversed hours, and suddenly you're expected to fall back into a normal daily routine. On top of that, everyday responsibilities that never existed downrange come rushing back all at once, bills, taxes, groceries, laundry.
All of it happens while still trying to decompress from what was left behind overseas. Reintegration and readjustment, all at the same time.