Joining the
@BritishArmy at 16, Sergeant Gabby discovered a love of travel... and the love of her life. Whilst serving in the Falklands, she met
@RoyalNavy sailor, Tyler.
On a date, they bought a poppy in honour of a
#WW2 veteran named Herbert and decided to name their first son after him.
In February 2024, baby Bertie was born. But the couple's joy was short-lived.
At six days old, Bertie was diagnosed with heart failure; only open-heart surgery could save him.
"I was frightened to truly bond with him; I thought he was going to die," says Gabby.
Their local hospital became their second home, but before surgery could take place Bertie developed an infection. Rushed to a children’s hospital miles from home, he clung to life.
"We were told to take it hour by hour. We were preparing to say goodbye."
Only one of them allowed to stay by Bertie’s bedside, the other was forced to sleep in the car to save on accommodation costs. Hospital food alone was costing hundreds per week.
Then, Gabby called
@SSAFA's Forcesline.
Within hours, SSAFA volunteer caseworker Roger called them.
"He was old school military, calm and no nonsense. It was reassuring to know that we had Roger and SSAFA, that we had backup."
Roger knew that the couple needed rest. He booked them a hotel near the hospital, and arranged for them to receive funds to cover food and parking costs.
"If SSAFA hadn’t stepped in, we’d have been in thousands of pounds' worth of debt; it would have affected our family for years."
In time, Bertie had his operation. Today, he is a resilient, cheeky two year-old.
Please donate today to help us support more military families like Gabby, Tyler and Bertie. Because no one should ever battle alone.
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