I'm +1 Ahliamdulilah ๐
Happy birthday to me OLAITAN ๐. Another year of quiet growth, small wins, and learning to be kinder to myself. Iโm grateful Iโm still here, still trying, still becoming.
Good morning family. โ๏ธ ๐
You may not see the reward yet, but every day you choose to keep learning, working and improving is adding something to the person youโre becoming.
Donโt underestimate quiet progress.
A lot can change when you stay consistent long enough. ๐ค๐ฅ
I love the fact that as you get older, you start to understand the difference between friends and associates, family and blood, business and work, love and lust, wants and needs. And most of all, you learn what truly matters and what doesn't.
If people could learn to understand that
We are all in this life to fulfil a specific purpose
People will spend less time looking at other people's accomplishments and care less about what others have to say about them
We see someone else moving faster, and suddenly we start questioning our own pace.
Someone has graduated.
Someone has found a job.
Someone is already doing their masterโs.
Someone is getting married. Someone has started a business.
Someone seems to be exactly where we think we should have been by now.
And just like that, we start wondering if we chose the wrong queue.
My greatest shock this morning is people calling me โdodoyoโ and โa foolโ because I said I dated a girl for 4 years and she never cheated. ๐๐
Iโm not bothered. Iโm more concerned about how damaged we are as men and how we view women today.
We donโt think loyal women exist anymore. This generation is fucked lol.
My mom bought some tubers of yam for 1k each, she bought just 4 cos she was scared that the yam might be spoilt ones for it to be sold at that cheap.
Today, she cooked the yam and nothing is wrong with it, in fact it was more than what we expected.
Now, we are scared that โWhat if the seller stole the yams from someoneโ and sold it at cheaper price.
Know yourself.
Iโve recently moved my trading working hours from 5am back to 8am. Initially it wasโฆ
5am - 12noon but now itโsโฆ
8am - 12noon.
And the reason is simple, Iโm not a morning person. My brain still struggles to wake up at 5 or 6am which often leads to bad analysis and poor decision making.
I studied this for months because I noticed how my win rate dropped since I started waking up early in July.
Iโm not saying this will suddenly increase my win rate but I do know Iโm better when my brain is active and fully awake.
Donโt follow the crowd. Just because people say work late night, doesnโt mean you have to work late night if you know you wonโt concentrate fully.
And just because everyone believes in waking up early doesnโt mean you have to.
Know yourself.