I worked for two pretty effective senators. I never saw either yell at a staff member. One did yell at the postmaster general once and jab a pen in his direction. Thatās about as aggressive as I ever saw.
But there was famous office lore of the boss and a staffer leaving a meeting with another senator who dressed down their staffer pretty harshly. When my boss and colleague left, the boss, who had a deserved reputation for humility, uncharacteristically turned to my colleague and said āI bet youāre glad you were on my side of the table today.ā