Why is it secularism for him, but not for her?
Why didn't the Muslim groom ask his Kashmiri Pandit bride to wear sindoor and the dejhoor? And why didn't Nidhi Razdan insist on wearing the dejhoor, an emblem of married identity that Kashmiri Pandit women traditionally wear with pride?
Is this secularism, love, or simply one-sided cultural accommodation?
In all my years, I have rarely, if ever, seen a Muslim groom embrace Hindu religious customs, convert to Hinduism, or arrive on horseback at the wedding venue in keeping with Hindu wedding traditions when marrying a Hindu woman.
So perhaps we need to revisit our understanding of secularism.
Apparently, it means one thing for him and quite another for her. To each their own — secularism, too, as per convenience.
But the icing on the cake is that the Abdullah family has finally been successful in relocating one kashmiri Pandit back to Srinagar, but sadly after snatching her identity as a kashmiri Pandit.
No Bindi
No Dejhoor
When Kashmiri Pandit gets marries to
Muslim
This is Secularism