My friend (31) broke up with her boyfriend (34) on the very night he met her father.
Her father had been anxious about the meeting for weeks.
He kept wondering whether he would make a good impression and whether he would have enough food prepared.
He cleaned the house himself, bought a new shirt specifically for the occasion, and spent the entire afternoon cooking.
He even asked her three separate times what her boyfriend liked to eat, as if getting the menu right might determine how the evening went.
By the time they arrived, grilled chicken, rice, homemade soup, and a chocolate cake were waiting on the table.
Everything had been arranged carefully.
It was obvious he had put a lot of thought into making the night feel welcoming.
During dinner, her father kept smiling, even though he was clearly nervous.
He asked her boyfriend about his job, his family, and his plans for the future.
Eventually, he asked about marriage.
Then he quickly added:
“I’m not trying to pressure you. I just want my daughter to be happy.”
Her boyfriend smiled politely.
“Of course, sir.”
For the rest of dinner, everything appeared to go well.
If you had been watching from outside, you probably would have assumed the evening was a success.
It wasn’t.