only men have 'agency' as men understand it
and neglect it
'feminism' is part of women's attempt to manage raped/'socialized' men, who are demanding management
for example sexual regulation of a girl’s mating choice won’t necessarily be by a “father” if that father is himself subservient to the grandmother, other elders and a million financial worries. Total control over a female’s choices by society is indubitably dysgenic and the few eugenic exceptions in all human history are improperly studied, but all especially in north Europe did allow considerable female choice or veto. But this can’t be directly compared to modern situations. I myself think free female choice is superior to most of what existed in history but free female choice doesn’t really exist now… that would imply to begin with free males, eg, which don’t exist