Nah he ain’t overreacting at all. Setting that boundary to respect his wife is mature, and friendships can still thrive in group chats without private 1 on 1s tho
She known this guy since high school about 10 years ago and her fiancée has known him for 5 years which is also the time they’ve been together. They’ve all played games for years, visited each other in different states and even lived in an apartment together for a year. They’ve played games and talked as friends even without her always being there before. Now all of a sudden it’s some weird thing. Further context is he met his wife 8 months ago and they got married 1 month ago. Despite both of them making attempts to include her as a friend it’s never reciprocated and his excuse is she’s always “going through stuff”.