There is 0 sense or point in trying to argue or appeal to women with male logic. Possibly 0 sense or point in trying to do so in general
Can only appeal to your fellow man in hopes they can see beyond the deception
We need to stop shaming men's sexuality & I'm so serious.
When we dehumanize men by referring to their perfectly natural desires as gross, predatory, or perverted, we push them into the darkness.
Why not frame men's sexuality as what it is: a tremendous force that drives men to strive, achieve, and provide.
Something worthy of respect & reverence, not shame & disgust.
By framing men's desires as merely base, animalistic, & nasty, we dishonor women too. Their desire for us is meaningless. Their urges are seen as perfectly satisfied by porn when nothing could be further from the truth.
Is there darkness inherent in some men sexuality? Absolutely.
But to paint all men with the same brush is to strip men of godlike sexuality that elevates them. That gives them a drive to be better versions of themselves. That makes them crave not just female sexuality but feminine ✨️presence✨️.
An escort gave a TED talk where she mentioned that most clients paid for an hour, but the sex was only 5 minutes.
Some paid for additional hours; that often didn't mean more sex.
Even men who PAY to have sex with women often want more than sex. Ask any stripper or OnlyFans model; the men want to talk.
And honestly, most guys could tell you that. Misogynists are dumb & loud, but plenty of men adore women for far more than sex.
Yet that drive for feminine presence and yes, sex, is real. It pushes men to do incredible things.
And when we as a culture strip the meaning that this drive gives to men's lives, we reduce men to caricatures of themselves that do not reflect reality.
Why encourage men to be the thing we hate by embracing it so hard?