People hit me with this argument all the time ("we need kids like yours in the schools, we need teachers like you in the schools") and it drives me up the wall because if anyone really cared they would start/participate in community co-reading initiatives in the public schools and family literacy campaigns that would actually move the needle instead of sending in CHILDREN as FUNDING MAGNETS that continues to do nothing. I'm sorry, my precious children are not to be used as bait on a hook for public funding to go to a particular educational facility as their purpose in life for 6+ hours a day, Margo. I thought about it for three seconds and I think they have a higher calling than that.
You may think “sacrificing my child for the good of public school” is a wild fringe belief but it’s not as fringe as it should be. Homeschool mom I know got challenged by friends who said, “how can Christians abandon children in public school?”