Women fall in love after sex. And if they already love you without sex, they become very cautious or reluctant to give you sex, because they know the feeling is magnified and becomes more irresistible and uncontrollable after sex.
So, with the guy she already likes, she first tries to “get to know him” - to either ascertain if the feeling is mutual, to mitigate the risk of heartbreak, or if she can manipulate the guy into accepting to reciprocate that feeling - and then give up the coochie if the signs are in her favor.
Point is: women have sex more easily and more frequently with men they’re not into than with the ones they are into.
But this is particularly true for women with a history of failed relationships and thus a clearer insight into a woman’s past relationships. As women with repeated failed relationships try to correct this experience by withholding sex from subsequent men. Although they call it celibacy.
And they’re even more firm with that decision with men they are emotionally connected to, and less firm with men they’re not emotionally connected to. So often - very often - while on that “celibacy” journey, they sleep with men they’re not into and stay celibate with the one they are into.
Because with men they’re into, coupled with the fact that sex naturally amplifies the emotion of love in women, sex then poses a bigger risk of a reoccurrence of past relationship experiences - heartbreak.
Hence, a woman devises “celibacy” or “let’s get to know ourselves first” as a heartbreak-preempting principle. And don’t forget, she applies it with or against the men that pose such “threat,” and she drops it with the guy she’s not emotionally connected to.
But what is in all of this for you, the man?
Simple: women safeguard their hearts more than they do their vaginas - of course, they cannot help but get some thrusting. And women who signal this kind of priority do not have a healthy relationship history.
Make of this whatever you may.