I manifested
@jonwu_ into my life, and I did four very specific things to make it happen:
1. I stopped consuming all man-hating content. Jokes count. I realized I would say "I don't hate men" but my TikTok would tell a different story. I had been down a bad rabbit hole after a breakup. You are what you consume. I deleted TikTok and never looked back.
2. I re-programmed my energy to be open to men. Instead of having closed off energy to potential suitors, I just told myself, I am open, I am open, I am open. It made dating way more fun and stopped me from judging books by their covers right away.
3. I stopped believing I was in lack of love. This was very important. I used to be so sad about being single. Then one day I woke up, and I decided to list out all of the ways I had love in my life -- my family, my friends, myself -- my whole life was romantic. And how could I be without love if I am love. I stopped going to bed upset, I lived with an energetic, playful and loving energy that was truly oozing from me inner to my outer self.
4. I wrote down 80 words in a notebook about the type of man I wanted to call into my life. My list had 0 attributes, as in I did not write about his wealth, his interests, his height, what he looked like. Instead I focused on qualities: kindness, generosity, deep, loyal, funny. Literally I filled a whole page of qualities only, tore it out of my notebook and put it in the Little Prince.
The day after I wrote the 80 qualities on a page, I was talking to Jon Wu about Joshua tree. I felt a calm voice tell me from my inner world that he was the one.
I had never had such clarity about a man in my life. The rest is history.
Words are magic, energy amplifies it. You want love, be love.
To tap into Twitter’s manifestation power, I imagined my dream man. I understand these traits rarely overlap in the general population, so I’m happy to wait. Let me know if this person actually exists. Hey, gotta dream big
⁃ Thinks about similar themes to Christopher Nolan
⁃Knows things. Nerd. Regularly goes down esoteric rabbit holes that may or may not overlap with mine. Just deeply curious about the world. Has many points of views and theories
⁃Is either very online so understands my references, or very offline
⁃Preferably experienced a formative character building heartbreak with many ensuing realisations
⁃Is an apprentice and philosopher of love. Reads and enjoys learning about relationships, why we love, how to love better
⁃Chalant about things that matter, nonchalant about the rest
⁃Respects and is curious about the divine feminine
⁃Friends see him as a romantic lover boy. Prioritises love and relationships (including friendships and family) (hard work is cool but willing to make time for love because they care)
⁃Passionate with one deep vector, along with many other wide-ranging interests
⁃Could write an insane charged love letter like Henry Miller and Anais Nin (not seeking to replicate all elements of that relationship)
⁃Spirit of an artist. They could be a researcher or an engineer or a founder or an investor but they see the world as an artist
⁃Style and humour of Cameron Winter, or related rockstars
⁃Appreciates art. Maybe has a favourite poem, could speak at length about why they appreciate specific essays, books, films, songs etc
⁃Creates Spotify playlists
⁃Often described as soulful
⁃Wiling to be a muse. People are often inspired by him
- Dreamer
⁃Excited to go on whimsical sidequests and adventures. Would be excited to go on the Transiberian Railway
⁃Lives in San Francisco
⁃27-35
About me: I tweet a lot and have a substack so that’s maybe the best place to start. My friends say my online presence is pretty representative of my actual irl vibes. I think I possess several of the traits listed here, you may deduce which ones