Men would be infinitely less dumbfounded by these types of scenarios if they understood that women evolved to subconsciously view men as their career, and not as a sacred eternal life companion.
Any time they do anything to you in a relationship, just analogize it to your work and ask if you’d do the same. You’ll find the answer if usually yes.
Cheating is nothing more than attending interviews before giving 2 weeks notice. Bodycount is just a white lie on a resume. Browsing tinder is as harmless as peeking at a job board while your boss is in his office.
Now make no mistake, women can LOVE their jobs. They can appreciate their jobs. It might even be a dream job. Many women are perfectly content, and even if they weren’t, they don’t know anyone who’s hiring 30 year olds right now. You can and will find a lifer.
But at the end of the day, it’s still a just job. And if an email from Google ever happened to magically materialize in her inbox, offering her 800k per year to sip smoothies and make day-in-my-life TikToks…
Then I’m sorry bro, she really enjoyed her time working with you.
My 25 y/o cousin dated a super pretty girl for many years. Met in high school. She was a horse girl, homeschooled until 10th grade. Went to the same college, had the same friend group. He's very smart, got into a top 10 business school for his MBA. She was going to follow him. Thought he was immune to any modern day risk.
The summer between graduation and grad school, they backpacked Europe together for two weeks, right before moving to the city his grad school was in. At the end of their trip, they go through customs in Germany and head to the terminal. She starts walking another way. He asks her what's up. She said her flight is at another terminal and she wouldn't be coming with him. She flew to Miami to work on a private yacht. Haven't heard from her since.
It's rough out there.