Funny how bioessentialism gets weaponised by men and women when it pertains to their biological itch needing to be satisfied/met, yet when it comes to males and their inclination to rape, suddenly it’s society’s fault (aka socialisation) that “makes” them ++
Men have a STRONG biological sex drive. Period. It's not debatable.
The male body continuously produces sperm, testosterone fuels frequent sexual desire 24/7. It's biological. It's nature.
For men, sex is not just a "want" - it's a strong physical URGE tied to hormones, stress relief, bonding, and emotional well-being.
Ignoring that reality creates serious frustration inside a marriage. It's common sense. MEN ARE NOT WOMEN.
Historically, women RECOGNIZED this. Our grandmothers were smarter.
They understood men and women experience desire DIFFERENTLY. Men have a steady, constant physical drive. Women's desire is affected by emotions, stress, hormones, relationship quality - it comes and goes.
Because of these differences, so many women ACCEPTED things like mistresses or prostitution, not out of disrespect for women, but as a way of managing mismatched sex drives within marriage. They were keeping their family intact.
Now? Modern women want to deny biology.
You want to push for MONOGAMY but you cannot even FUCK YOUR HUSBANDS? Make it make sense.
You deny him sex for weeks, months, use it as a weapon, then get shocked when he cheats or leaves?
If you cannot handle the duties of monogamy, why demand it?