Kwa men kama unatapata some 60% attraction and comfort in a certain woman, hio 40% huwa a vacuum that needs to be filled and men abhor vacuums. It's your role to make sure a woman ticks all the boxes, if not just practice polygamy.
Cheating does not make sense to me btw .
Kama Huyo mtu mwingine anakubamba si uachane tu na mwenye ukonaye basi you go for Huyo mwenye anakubamba .