extra points if they call you, for example, a degenerate disgusting faggot for how much you want it, reminding you that you are a disgusting degenerate faggot
CNC hits so hard when the active partner says "you can stop this, you're not stopping me because you want it too" cause
1. It sounds hot
2. It doesn't break character/immersion
3. It reminds you that you are safe and you can stop the scene whenever you want