Darline the greatest RED flag for me was you immediately dropping the name you share with your husband and daughters. It’s just so odd to me. This coming from a divorced, successful woman whose name never changed despite divorcing 30+ years ago. At the time my young children asked a very simple question “if you change your name, how will people know you belong to us?” Years later as adults, successful with children of their own - all baring the same “last” name, gave me ‘permission’ as I approached achieving my doctorate “mom if why don’t you revert to your original name?” My response was immediate - “how will folks know y’all ALL belong to me?”
At any rate the seemingly swift change to pick up the widely known Graham name from Lindsay despite the personhood you built alongside your husband and children - seemed more marketing ploy than honest reflection of who you are.
It’s the little things …