The reports about the events at Cornell—and the lack of accountability for the perpetrators—are sickening. So is the victim blaming in response.
Victim blaming: “If you don’t want to be raped, don’t go to a frat party.”
Responsibility: Don’t. Rape. Women.
The right focus is not on teaching girls and women to avoid harm. It’s on raising boys and men who don’t commit it in the first place.