It would be so very useful and valuable to have schools for mothering, where potential mothers (but really both parents) could learn about so much of what it takes to be a good parent. About what a child needs (as if they themselves had not gone through this), what they require in their different stages of life, an exposure to the different philosophies about child care, about nutrition, about methods of discipline and education, about the preparation for the child’s life beyond the home, about defensive measures for both themselves and their children, etc.
It is incredible that parents, mothers in particular, would not take the time to do this - and to do it *before* the child was born (like during those 9 months, at least, if not earlier), not waiting until the birth and then struggling with all that comes with it like tsunami which suddenly hits them.