My 5 year old has come home from school emotionally disturbed twice in the past 12 months.
Both times were the result of books read to him by the school's librarian. We live in BC.
The first time, he was read a book about a little boy who had to sit at the back of the bus because of the colour of his skin.
The second time was today. He was read a book about a little First Nations girl who went to school and all the teachers at the school were mean and she was trapped at the school and never got to go home.
He is FIVE.
These are not healthy or age appropriate books for such young children. Children who are completely trusting of their teachers. Children who have zero critical thinking skills. Children who are vulnerable and impressionable.
I am mad at the school district tonight. I am angry that I had to give my 5 year old an entire well rounded lesson of First Nations history and a global perspective of racism and slavery to provide proper context to the emotionally weaponized sliver of information fed to him in public school.
He now understands that we have First Nations ancestry in our family, but that the government doesn't recognize us as First Nations. He also understands that not all First Nations children had unfortunate school experiences. He now understands that some children had mean teachers, but most children who died in residential schools died from disease. We talked about all the things, good and bad. We talked about what happened when First Nations met the men who arrived on ships, and that if those particular ships hadn't arrived, other ships would have. We talked about how First Nations fought eachother, and fought with the men from overseas, and then worked with the men from overseas and fought against the USA together. We talked about how First Nations and people from the new world fell in love and grew families and built Canada together. We talked about how archeologists think First Nations crossed over the bearing land bridge, but that scientists are still discovering new information, and how new people continue to arrive into Canada.
He also understands that slavery still exists today and that white people have both been enslaved and owned slaves, but North America and western countries all denounced and apologized for slavery many many years ago, but that other countries still actively keep children and adults as slaves.
He is 5. That was a lot of talking to undo two short but devastating library lessons. That was unfair to him and to me.
The school curriculum absolutely needs to change
@LDoerkson
@PeterMilobar.
It is unfair to teach tiny pieces of information to young children when the issues are so complex.
After the library "melanin" lesson last year my other child, age 6, asked me if "light skin people" are mean. C'mon.