Are you really intent on arguing for the creation of a society where everyone has the right to have sex with anyone else, and a refusal is morally wrong, except perhaps for medical reasons, such as too young or too ill?
Regettably, in the course of my professional practice, I have come across men who believe this specifically in relation to women. Am I wrong to disapprove strongly of such attitudes because it demonstrates my prejudice against their preference for coercive sex?
And after all, all human interactions are influenced by personal preferences, not just sexual behaviour. So if exercising sexual preferences is to be deemed wrong, why not include other preferences, indeed all other preferences?
It's probably not a good idea to argue for a principle whose logical extension would have such an effect.