My wife is the most creative person I’ve ever met, but literally has no calendar.
I am so rigorous about my calendar that I take the time to delete events that do not take place, but I have literally never had a unique thought.
Women who are, ahem, ✨creatives✨ paired with men with massive executive function UNITE! I walk around the house all day thinking “don’t put it down, put it away,” and I’m much better these days. My husband’s natural ability to form systems does wonders for our kids and home management and between four kids and me, we’ve really loosened him up. It’s a great match, with a lot of benefits for everyone, though the adjustment to each other’s styles was rocky. I feel like it’s underrepresented in cultural discourse and products outside of Manic Pixie Dream Girl saves Boring Guy movies. I guess Competent Man Helps ADHD Woman Learn To Plan and She Teaches Him Fun, Magical Things Can Happen Without Plans is a little less compelling as an elevator pitch, but I recommend it for a marriage!