Stay away from people like this. When you have no more status, connections, or favors to offer them you will be discarded. They do not care about how smart or capable you are, only the perception of it.
people need to status max so much more
high status people saying "chasing status is bad" is such an effective way of keeping everyone below them
literally the only reason why you care about a person you have not met is because they've done something publicly approved
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